Michael Bord

Coaching begins by helping one to identify their beliefs and values, the unspoken rules defining personal narratives and myths. Those can be explored by discussing our attitudes towards such topics as happiness, success, fear, and freedom.

Our internal constructs are oftentimes largely formed by social norms and traditions — they may have been useful at certain points in our lives but no longer serve their purpose. But who are we beyond our current myth of ourself?

On the way to accomplishing personal goals, I emphasize the balance between setting, achieving, and adjusting those, as well as identifying the underlying motivations. The more conscious we are about setting up our goals, the more efficient we are at reaching them, and the more fulfilled we are once accomplished:

How do I achieve my goals? ⟷ What are my goals? ⟷ Why are these my goals?

This way, one develops a solid base while progressing in the desired direction. For example, as the true power comes from within, the key to developing qualities such as confidence or leadership lies in being more conscious and responsible for the choices, acknowledging the risks, and openly facing the unpredicted outcomes of our actions.